A wedding is an event that will happen (at least) once in a lifetime, and it should be planned to the tiniest detail. But you shouldn’t forget about the bachelorette party either. In a way, it is a symbolic celebration of ending a single girl’s life and should be something to remember for a lifetime.
You have probably watched many recognizable movie scenes when a cop or fireman crash ladies night, or a surprise arrives in the form of a cake, with a half-naked, perfectly shaped, oiled man coming out of it, as a gift.
Although these were just movies, these are something you can use as an idea if you are planning your own or someone else’s party to say goodbye to single life. And if you want to make that night unforgettable, you can spice up the evening and find male strippers for your bachelorette party.
Make Everything Look Like a Surprise
Usually, godmother, sister or best friend is in charge of planning a bachelorette party for the future bride. If you find yourself in this role, the first you should know is that it won’t be a piece of cake. Maybe because a bride-to-be, in some way, expects you to organize the part, so it’s tough for you to hide it. Or maybe because you are just not good enough in the planning and stuff.
The most important thing is to respect the wishes and requirements of the future bride, or at least to use them as the starting point for organizing a party. If you are close to her, you probably know her taste and desire. Maybe she told you sometimes how she imagines her bachelorette party. Or, if you know the bride so well, you can be free enough to organize it as you think she might like it.
Do not hesitate to ask for help if a future bride has once expressed a desire to have dancers or strippers at her party. Try to make a list of guests discreetly, taking care of whom she likes to see and whom not. Ask all invitees for discretion, but also to help you as much as they can.
Maybe some guests have experience with organizing a bachelorette party, or they know some people who can help you if you decide to hire a dance or stripper. But before making a „final call“ to the agency, you should consider some items once again.
Think Once Again Whom Will Attend the Party
Before arranging the arrival of dancer/stripper, go back to the list of invitations once again. If the bride’s mom, aunts or future mother in law are among them, maybe this is not the best solution for an unforgettable night. It can be troublesome even if a close family member of a future groom is invited – there is a chance that someone misinterprets a bride’s behavior, and there is a problem out of nowhere.
Finally, when you down your list on desirables guests of about the same age, then go ahead. If you haven’t had experience with hiring male dancers or strippers so far, you may find it a bit awkward to make a call. Ask some of the girls invited to the party to do it, of course, in your presence.
It’s possible that some girls will not be comfortable with an almost naked guy hanging and playing around them, so feel free to ask around. Make it clear before the show started, just to avoid any unpleasant situation.
Look for Relevant Information
You have to understand that it is a job like every other and that those who do it are professionals (although it may be difficult for you to negotiate with someone you’ll see in underwear very soon). They work solo on in agencies, but our recommendation is to choose the first option.
Look for the agency’s website or some relevant site where you can find recommendations from satisfied clients. You should see photos of a gentleman who will entertain you and choose the one bride (or guests) would like the most. Professional agencies always have some kind of catalog. It’s your money, so you have the choice.
Ask about the timing, rate per hour, but also which additional “services” comes in – is it just dance, lap dance, stripping all the way, etc. Here you can find interesting information about this „artistic“ dance. Professional performers will know that their focus should be on the bride, and will devote most of the time to her, but the other girls won’t be neglected. Since the tip is somehow implied, be sure they’ll do everything to earn it, but only to the limit you agreed.
Agree on Details of His Coming
The agencies usually ask for some payment in advance. Agree on the rest of the payment too and of course, ask for a contract or written arrangement. The assumption is that you have already arranged a place for a bachelorette party (club or apartment), and arrange details such as whether the dancer/stripper will come alone or someone will pick him up.
If you have an idea (for which you are willing to pay extra), you can arrange with the agency and then realize it together. If you go to a proven solution, dancers and strippers generally have pattern performances – a cop, doctor, delivery boy, or already mentioned popping out of the cake.
These guys usually have their own playlists with already known songs for performing the show. If you want, you can create your own list of songs that the bride loves, and let the “artist” do custom-made sou. All this can affect the price, so be careful if you have a predetermined budget.
On a day of the bachelorette party, behave as usual. The surprise that you will arrange for the future bride will surely stay in the most beautiful memory, and the “addition” of a good-looking guy who performs just for her eyes will make the “solo life goodbye” party really memorable.